
As we get older, we settle into our lives, with our coterie of friends and family, places we like to shop at, coffees, dinners - and that's what you hope happens in life - getting to a place of comfort. Even, as much as our spouses can drive us crazy, there is something soothing in the knowledge of our longstanding relationships, as well.
For me it was just time. I left my marriage of 20 years. All I can say is until you've been there, you really can't understand the complexity and soul searching and life altering year that follows divorce, particularly after such a long marriage.
But I landed on my feet, and decided to follow through with some things I've always wanted to do. Who knew, not even me, that within 2 years I would land in Paris, and not only land, but feel so gratified.
I've met a cast of characters, made so many new lifelong friends; and strange to think I would have known none of them had I not taken risks. They have changed my life, in extraordinary ways, for which I am grateful. And without them, Paris would not be the same.
This week was pretty crazy - lunch with Julie (we had the best cheeseburgers in town at Ferdi's!), lunch with Avis in Les Halles, shopping with Vincent, dinner at Katrin's, coffee with Deborah, strolling Ile St Louis; a vernissage and then dinner with friends, late night chats at an atelier, ducking into the movies - really nice times.
and yes, for those that know me well, a stop each week at the hair salon.